@Money July 19, 2012: 4:18 PM ET
(Money magazine) -- Jo Ann and Mike Nahirny feel the classic sandwich-generation squeeze.
They're juggling three homes: their own and two they bought for their son, 18, and daughter, 21, to live in during college. They also supply meals and run errands for Mike's 92-year-old father, taking him twice weekly to see Mike's mom, who has Alzheimer's, in a nursing home 50 miles away.
All that, plus their jobs. The couple commute an hour each way to work: Jo Ann has a $52,000-a-year position as a high school English teacher; Mike, a retired Army reservist and financial analyst at HUD, the U.S. housing agency, now works part-time as a security guard. That leaves little time to enjoy their lakefront home.